Tuesday, August 4, 2009

The Psychology of Seduction

The psychology of seduction is one of the most interesting areas of psychology. At one time or the other all of us would have tried to seduce the other person in some way or the other seduction need not always end in bed, there are number of levels in seduction. Games of seduction are played not only by men, even women are equally adept in playing the seduction games. In fact they are much better players of seduction games. The difference between men and women is that women are more subtle but more decisive in their moves.

What does seduction basically do? Seduction tries to captivate the other person's attention and make them preoccupied with the thought of the person that seduced them. Seduction often has sexual connotations. The other person somehow does not his or her faculty of reasoning, it is totally handicapped so their actions will not have any sound reasoning. The seduced person will be often ready to go against their own principles of life, leave their family. The ultimate motivation here is sex.

Even the most responsible persons and mature personalities can make mistakes here. However, the question is it a mistake to be seduced? It depends on your status in the society. If you are a married person, then you are being irresponsible by trying to seduce another person or by allowing yourself to be seduced. If you are a single and the other person too is a single, then there is no clashing interests. In such a situation, seduction has no negativity unless the seduction itself is to achieve some other goal. Seduced people can be easily manipulated.

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